Shall we listen to the woman?

Syro-Phoenician Woman

Have we ever felt so affected by an issue that we need to protest? It’s not the done thing for us perhaps? This passage from Mark’s Gospel is one which might be avoided. It portrays Jesus as possibly rude, terse at best. But if we look from the woman’s perspective we might see something very different.

The passage Mark 7:24-30 starts, “from there”, but where was Jesus?

Anyone for a custard slice later?

He had been in Jerusalem. The Pharisees had been questioning Jesus about defiled hands etc. It seems that they were more concerned with the food that they had eaten and the proper washing of hands than the ethics of the day. You know, what’s right for the society that live in, for the common good, not just the rich and influential.  The Pharisees had looked back at their traditions, for the past was going to save them. But Jesus contends that the food that we eat isn’t going to make us do wrong things; however, you feel about that custard slice later after lunch. It is from within, the actions that displease God come from within – it is our choice to do wrong. It is in this that Jesus declared that all foods were clean. But who was he speaking to again? The Jews of Jerusalem.

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Tyre in Phoenicia

We move back to the passage: we are now in the area of Tyre and Sidon, in the land of Syria. This is a strange place for Jesus – this isn’t Galilee or Judea, he’s out of his home turf by a long way. Tyre was the place that they produced the Temple Tax coins. Predominantly Jesus spoke with the Jews, he consistently gave emphasis on God’s promise to Israel. Jesus’ healings are part of God’s kin_dom breaking in, where Jesus calls for Israel to repent and believe: and they struggle with that. 

Who is this woman?

And then this women appears. She’s Greek, according to the text, often translated as gentile. She is from Phoenicia from Syria. That instantly labels her as an outsider. Many have considered her to be a poor woman, possibly a peasant working in the rural outskirts of the city. She is also alone, there is no male escort, elderly relative to lend support. So was she a single mother in a rural agrarian setting, coming to this man called Jesus out of desperation? Well, she speaks of scraps of food to feed her daughter; it’s possibly more survival than desperation, maybe. Is there a need to protest?

Jesus, born in Nazareth, was considered to have found viable support from the construction trade in the local city of Sepphoris, a thriving Roman-influenced urban centre about 4 miles from Nazareth.  He has travelled quite a distance to this area to this area of Tyre from Jerusalem, supported by quite an entourage, including the disciples and the women maybe mentioned in Luke 8:1-3. Jesus was a Jew in a foreign land.

The woman pleads with him to heal her daughter, to bring her and them back from the margins of life and death, and his response was:

“Let the children be fed first, for it is not fair to take the children’s food and throw it to the dogs” Mark 7:27

Wow! What’s your first thoughts of that? Dogs. Even in the Greek small print, calling someone a small dog isn’t going to make it sound any better. 

Possibly we have been mis-reading the situation?

Tyre : a place of Gentiles surrounded by Jews

Tyre is mentioned a number of times in Scripture. Due to its trade in Temple Tax and being a lively port, although it had a predominantly Greek-influenced population, it had extensive links with Jews. In 1 Kings 21 (and 2 Kings 9:10) there’s a story about Ahab, where Jezebel, a Phoenician princess, is condemned to be eaten by dogs.  It’s about a past story.

Paul goes to a community near to Tyre in Acts 21:3-7 as Herod supplied food to Tyre and Sidon. Tyre may well have been such a bustling place that in times of drought and famine, most of the food was needed in the city and not in the surrounding Jewish villages. There’s opinion that there was significant animosity between the people of Tyre and the local Jews. Was there a need to protest? Could this explain that response from Jesus?

Could the food also go to the children of Israel. A reversal of the practice of ensuring that the city got the harvest first?

“Let the children be fed first, for it is not fair to take the children’s food and throw it to the dogs”

Mark 7:27

Jesus’ response does appear to either be terse, even rude, or this has been written to convey a particular meaning. Given that Jesus didn’t heal any Gentile  except in this scenario (Hooker, Morna, D., The Gospel According to St Mark, (London : A&C Black, 1997), p. 181) what’s the meaning here?  The daughter is being fed, as the woman claims that the dogs are eating the crumbs. 

Earlier in Mark’s Gospel Jesus has healed another daughter, Jairus’ daughter. Jairus, a prominent lay steward of the synagogue in the Decapolis, predominately Gentile territory but with Jairus of course a Jew. Why was his daughter healed? “Your faith has saved you” (Mark 5:34). So why was this woman’s daughter healed? – she was a gentile, a foreigner. Was it worth that need to protest?

Reversing the Power Imbalance

Perhaps the woman sought to reverse the power imbalance, the misogyny, between the superior male and the lonely single mother.  That took a bit of guts. Perhaps the woman, possibly educated, was able to overturn the first-century conventions and defy tradition, remember the Pharisees and their longing for tradition, seeking healing for her child. It was more than healing, it gave them life, ability to re-join society, not hampered by the spectre of a demonised daughter. And note that the woman calls Jesus …Lord

Possibly this is a story of a woman of some means who is fighting against the popular will of one ruling class over another. She stands on a boundary and wishes for equality, and she believes. Believes, even when Israel struggles, that Jesus can deliver something more than bread, life.

What emerges is a new relationship, overcoming the original difference seen by others. Perhaps we are aware of contradictory convictions, established over many decades perhaps, where our opinions are entrenched, as our others. We may not feel that we wish to broach such a topic for it might cause offence. We might stand in no man’s land, feeling uneasy – wouldn’t be easier to withdraw back to relative comfort and safety… Do we need to protest?

Orange Order…Republican

I attended some Orange Order marches and another Republican March whilst I was in Glasgow, to gain an understanding of the passion of the two differing opposing parties. The blue shirts and the green hooped shirts were evidence of the clear lines of demarcation. When I asked whether people were willing to talk about it, there was reticence to speak for the possibility of causing offence.  

Climate Change

What of those fighting for climate change, where we need to make changes but “I like the way I have been doing this for years, why should I change now?” is one response. When we call for a meeting miles from each other and when an electronic format might suffice, be quicker and not burn petrol/diesel? When the price of a green product costs so much more than the plastic packaged commodity. What choice do we have?

This difficult passage, often overlooked, is one where we may all resonate with. It speaks of overcoming privilege, of crossing the border with another, of making relationships – but it is going to be costly. We are going to have to believe in this. If this is what God wants for our world, God’s world, climate change is going to be seeking us to make such significant changes, ones where we may need to make a stand. Will we? This Syro-Phoenician woman, a foreigner, did.

Takeaway

I think it’s fairly obvious. We can find comfort in church and we can also find conflict in our world – but positive conflict.

Conflict where we can engage, build relationships on many issues which can bring peace between communities – sounds a lot like kinship to me. 

If Climate Change is becoming a regular feature of the news that we can tune it out, now maybe it’s a time when we re-focus, consider the love for one another, and make those changes – even at great cost. It may mean confrontation. Can we not protest? Are we up for that?


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7 thoughts on “Shall we listen to the woman?

  1. It took some time for me to pronounce “Syro-Phoenician” when I was reading the passage for Sunday church service. I looked at the preacher as if he wrote it deliberately 🙂 Strangely, this story was something that I did not quite realize until now, which was in fact what it said. And I missed confirming or thinking about it so far.

    I think the woman in the story reacted wisely, as she did not want to lose the only opportunity she thought she had faith in. Hence, instead of feeling bad or emotionally breaking down after hearing Jesus, she responded intelligently.

    As for Jesus, I wonder why he was rude to her. Besides the circumstances at that time which you have mentioned, perhaps it could also be because Jesus already knew how she would respond and wanted to explain to the Jews and Gentiles through this woman about how to tolerate each other in relationships instead of reacting negatively when hurt.

    1. I have always found this passage problematical. Jesus is outdone by the words of a woman. He even seems to speak harshly at the woman’s plea for healing of her daughter. It might be best not to consider this healing as an isolated incident, but as part of a greater seam of healing as described by Mark.

      She is spoken of as ‘Greek’, which was an expression that she was Gentile – not a Jew. She is from Phoenicia in Syria. This is far from Jesus’ stomping ground. The vast majority of his healing is focussed upon Jews, but here and in the following healing, we have direct contact with Gentiles. But, even here, there are parallels with previous stories from Mark. Just like to woman (Mark 5:24) that had been haemorrhaging for 12 years, it seems that assertive female behaviour gets results. The Syro-Phoenician woman speaks of dogs, a common phrase used for Gentiles by Jews ‘at that time’. She responds to Jesus that the children have been fed, a point already confirmed by Mark (Mark 6: 32-44). She speaks of scraps of bread: a point I have read (Hooker: The Gospel according to St Mark) where scraps were possibly pieces of bread used for cleaning of hands. Hooker states that the woman continues to have faith, hope in this man from Galilee, this Jew. So, on those occasions when Jews struggled with the message of Jesus, this Gentile woman does not. Interestingly, there is no celebration noted from the woman when she returned home – perhaps she returned home alone?

      The common understanding was that the message of Good News was solely for the Jews, those of Israel. This is possibly the only incident that Mark describes Jesus teaching on Gentile soil. Here, Mark is explaining that the message is for all. The women, the beggars, those who have been ill for decades, ostracised by society, are healed : perhaps it is not the methods employed (e.g. spitting), which get the greater attention, but that this is good news for the poor.

  2. I have noticed that most of the time, Jesus made sure that the person that he was going to heal had sufficient faith before he healed them. There seems to be some relation between faith and healing. In the case of this Gentile woman, he probably intended to test her faith, even though in the process he was rude to her in the usual way Gentiles were treated then. But perhaps the ultimate outcome was more important for this woman?

    A few months back, some people did ignore me when I asked them about what the whole world was doing at the time Jesus performed so many miracles, confined to only the place where he was :-). In those days, there was no way to communicate. If we imagine Jesus being here in 2024 and performing these kinds of miracles. People from around the world would travel to see him to be healed, and then wouldn’t he heal them without considering if they are Jews or not ? Perhaps this Gentile woman was healed just to show us that for God it does not matter who we are, and that faith is what is important.

    1. There is a US portrayal of Jesus on Netflix called ‘Messiah’ which might show what might be the impact of Jesus were to replicate what he did back then in the 2020s with social media and TV. Well worth it

  3. However, I don’t think I am fully convinced about the fact that Jesus did not find a better way to talk to her, rather than just going with the usual way society treated Gentiles. By doing this, although Jesus emphasized the importance of faith, he did not disapprove of the way Gentiles were treated, which is weird.

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